Cooking With Kids: Building Life Skills Through Kitchen Fun | Age-by-Age Guide

This is a guest blog post by Lace Flowers. Foodie, Business Systems Consultant and founder of Tech & Tastes

"Get out of the kitchen - I'm cooking."


"It's dangerous."


"You're slowing me down."


"You're in the way."

Can you hold your hands up to saying or thinking these things?


It always surprises me how many adults tell their kids this stuff. And sure, I've been guilty of this at one time or another too.


I know, you are busy mama, you want to get things done.


If we keep our kids out of the kitchen, it's hardly suprising when, as teens, the kids "can't cook," and when they get to university and start living alone, they only eat takeaway and microwave meals and spend their life sick.


Kids shunned from the "dangerous" kitchen will be the next generation of can't cook, won't cook when they're older.


Without parental guidance, takeaway and the microwave meals become the least dangerous and indeed, the only ways they know how to eat.


By excluding them from the kitchen, this is what we teach them - even though that may never have been your conscious intention.


As parents, it's our duty to put capable adults into the world.


Adults who can cook healthy meals and nourish themselves with fresh ingredients without relying on processed foods or microwaves.


Adults who will be healthy, strong and capable.


And health starts with our diet. What we put in our bodies matters.


Today, I want to show you how we can pass on these vital kitchen skills to kids as young as 2 - and make it EASY and FUN.

Starting the Kitchen Journey

Curious kiddos want to get involved with everything, and I am a firm believer in letting them do exactly that.


Teach them young, teach them well, and you'll create well-rounded humans who can feed themselves nourishing meals and maintain their health as adults.


Plus, you'll create beautiful memories exploring something we do every single day - making food.


Let me show you how it's done, no matter the age of your kids. They can ALL get involved in meal prep and cooking.

My own children (eldest now 16 at the time of writing) entered the kitchen with mama at age 2. Wtf, right?



Yeah, it may sound crazy, but age 2 is the perfect time to begin a child's kitchen journey. Toddlers love to help mama, and we should absolutely take advantage of this natural curiosity and nurture it.

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What Can a 2-Year-Old Do in the Kitchen?

A lot, actually.


First things first: essential tools you'll need:

  • A safe stool for them to reach the prep area


  • A cute apron (because dress-up is fun and clean clothes are mama's best friend)


  • A dumper truck toy, large enough to put real vegetables in that they can "deliver" ingredients to the kitchen


My daughter loves being our kitchen's delivery driver!

Here's how we make it work:

  • Introduce hand washing at the big sink before food prep


  • Go together to the fridge to get ingredients


  • Add items to their truck for delivery to the kitchen


  • Count ingredients and name colors as you go.


In the kitchen small children can:

  • Peel garlic if you crush it for them


  • Wash fresh produce


  • "Brum" peelings to the waste containers


  • Add prepped veg to bowls


  • Build vegetable towers and peelings art whilst you chop and do "bigger people" jobs


Let your children smell ingredients, mix things, and just be with you while you prep. And importantly - let them go when they've had enough. Invite them to get involved every day, at every meal without pressure. No meal is too small for children to be involved with.

Growing Kitchen Skills

Older children can do more:

  • Plan meals with you


  • Use a vegetable peeler and child safe knives


  • Add ingredients to pots and pans


  • Stir under supervision


  • Learn kitchen safety around hot pans



Teens can:

  • Plan meals


  • Shop and budget for meals


  • Use knives for chopping


  • Prep and cook entire dishes


And everyone can taste test during the cooking process, wipe down surfaces, set tables, wash dishes (not sharps for the small ones please!)


My eldest was doing most of the cooking at home by age 12. At 13, cooking with a pro chef in a café in Mexico, and now at 16, is top of the GCSE Food Tech class and has just been invited to cook in one of Jamie Oliver's restaurants in London!

Beyond Cooking

Write your lists together and take your children food shopping:

  • Have them tell you what ingrdients are needed for a specific dish


  • Ask them to spot and choose fresh ingredients from your list


  • Explore unusual foods


  • Visit farmers markets or grow your own


Clean-up is just as important as cooking:

  • Invite them to clear and wash cutlery


  • Help with tidying away plates and pans


  • Learn about waste management


  • Safe storage of leftovers


  • Explore and choose new dishes to try together

Starting Small

If cooking with kids is new or feels scary or overwhelming to you, start small:

  • Make sandwiches


  • Set up lounge picnics


  • Create simple soups


  • Try slow cooker stews


  • Blend smoothies together

Your confidence will grow alongside theirs. You'll spend quality time together and build stronger connections through something you do every day anyway - cooking and eating.

Download my free Kitchen and Business Systems Guide for three super easy, nourishing meals you can make today, complete with variations on how to involve your kids from toddlers to teens.


Remember, it's never too early or too late to start cooking with your kids. Just get in the kitchen together and reconnect through creating and sharing food.

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